Saver and Spender – Who Is Who?

I had a paddle boarding date last weekend, a lovely man, but I don’t think we were a fit–despite a stellar day on the water.  He was introspective, and a man who looked at life and people as tenderly as I’d seen in awhile. Here’s an observation, he was a good provider.  They raised two kids together and both went off to college etc.  In … Continue reading Saver and Spender – Who Is Who?

A Cohabitation Pre-nup. Really?

A friend of mine called the other day to tell me that she and her wonderful boyfriend were going to move in together after about a year. After all, they spent all their free time together already. She was quite glow-y and happy, but then I asked what she thought about the possibility of discontinuation of her spousal support.  Queue the screech of a ’70’s … Continue reading A Cohabitation Pre-nup. Really?