I had a paddle boarding date last weekend, a lovely man, but I don’t think we were a fit–despite a stellar day on the water.  He was introspective, and a man who looked at life and people as tenderly as I’d seen in awhile. Here’s an observation, he was a good provider.  They raised two kids together and both went off to college etc.  In … Continue reading Saver and Spender – Who Is Who?